Macklin:

Don't get so caught up and upset about the "label" of your issues. Many people that have mental problems or personality issues have multiple issues. For instance I have BPD, major depression, PTSD, and anxiety disorder. But everyone has some traits of things..OCD, etc. I think it is great that you are seeking help at your age. That takes a lot of courage, be proud of yourself, and no, you aren't being self centered or whatever your Mother said. Good luck, and keep your chin up!