Thank you for the responses. Yesterday she packed her stuff and left while I was at work. Apparently she got an apartment an hour away. She says she wants to think about stuff and maybe we can work it out. I don't know if I want to now. I will always love her and miss her dearly but I can't believe she would rather leave than work it out. I wish her the best but think it is probably over between us.

Now there is the matter of the legal side.