well he kept his word anyway and stayed up to when i got home, and sat up with me until he said he was gonna pass out from lack of sleep lol...

he is a nice guy, just very stupid, chicken, idiotic, indecisive.. maybe he thinks this is going to hurt her less by dragging it out? we cant tell whats going on in someones head, so we cant tell why they do things, but you cant just go and say he isnt a nice guy.. he treats people nice, just not in this circumstance.