Sry I haven't responded I've been busy. For one, I believe she does want this relationship, just on her terms, since she asked to have the wedding next year. This is her first REAL relationship, and she is pretty spoiled. I've notice the more I ignore her the more she tries to get my attention. I know she has her own personnal issues as do I, she chooses to forget them. I think when she said that to me she meant that every relationship is going to lose that spark and then just get bland. I do keep reminding her that she was a totally different person when I first met her, like we use to do stuff everyday, go for walks, minigolf, and just stuff to be together. Where its like now she doesn't want to be around me, she's breaking plans, everything I do she has to give me an attitude. I bought a grill off craigslist so I can grill her food and she says you have money like that and I prefer charcoal grills instead. Here I am just trying to help by cooking dinner for her and its not like I spent a fortune. We been planning vacations for the summer like new england aquarium which is where she wants to go, I don't mind just because it will be something to do together and a trip to new york and working all the stores there also what she wants. I don't know too many guys who want to do about 8-10 hours of shopping but as long as I am with her that's all I really care about. I feel like I'm the only one compromising here.