Wow! This is a difficult thing, isn't it? I remember when I came out about 5 years ago...it was so tough! I can totally relate! How bold are you? You could just come out and say that you are attracted to her, but you wouldn't pursue it. I know, such a bummer there, but really if she's your teacher/therapist/whatever, it's unethical for them to really do anything about it other than say thank you and say they're flattered!

I remember in high school I asked my Earth Science teacher to marry me...in front of everyone! I was the class clown, a lot of people liked me...I was taking a test or something like that at the time, acted like I was really frustrated and said..."Mr. X, will you marry me?" It was so funny! I just basically yelled it out! Well, he knew I liked him a lot, and he said his wife might object but after she's gone he would! I knew he was just kidding, though!

Try to hang in there!