Did you like this therapist darkasnight? Would you continue with her if you could? Perhaps you were not a good fit and it's time for you to find someone else. However, it's worth bearing in mind that most will charge for missed sessions, and if you have issues with authority you will probably have those with the next therapist too. But finding someone who is not regularly late for session and who doesn't "dump" you sounds like a good way forward. If she gave you referrals they are worth considering -- maybe she is not experienced working with the condition you have but knows someone who is.