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Old May 20, 2011, 10:54 AM
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Originally Posted by DarkAsNight View Post
As far as why she did it, well if you knew what she learned about me, my intrusive thoughts, my compulsions, my screwed up soul, I had a feeling it would come to this. She said she no longer felt she could help me anymore.
It sounds like you may have done some major boundary crossing with your actions? I would find a new T and start there, see if you can work on not acting on your thoughts and compulsions, find where they are coming from if possible or see if a pdoc will work on your for meds, etc. first. You may not be ready for therapy yet if you resent other people's boundaries and rules.

I think your T literally was not "good enough" to be able to help you, rather than not wanting to/abandoning you. It is extremely hard to start over but I hope you are able to come up with a plan to help yourself, figure out what you want to accomplish with therapy and work the plan.
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