I agree with Echo. There are a whole lot of terms we worry about, 'nerd' and 'loser' among them. And 'anxiety-ridden' and 'irrational' may be other ones. I struggle with anxiety, but I'd prefer not to be described as anxiety-ridden! That makes me sound overly passive. My emotions are not always reasonable, but I don't think of myself as outright 'irrational' because of that. After all, I am able to see that there isn't a fit.

Sorry, i think I'm going to but out of this thread cos i don't know if I'm being very helpful and I think others are able to relate better than I'm managing to!

xxxSnowQueen