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Originally Posted by jadedmoonbeam
I know you're young honey, and I have been there, done that. I am telling you this stuff to help you....I am 41 years old and have been exactly in your shoes.
why do you want to be with a cheater when you've been cheated on...and you already hate yourself...take yourself out of this mess while you still can.
While you're off this summer find some other things to do and find a nice guy who doesn't have a girlfriend and can treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
If this guy is willing to cheat, hasn't broken up with his GIRLFRIEND but still asked you to your school Formal/Prom...is this really the kind of boy you want to be with?
Let him choose her....i think you might like him because of the thrill of it all right now...but he's really not a nice guy when you look at it. You will end up hurt and lied to just like he's lying to his girlfriend every time he's with you - he's probably lying to you already.
When he calls/texts you, don't answer the phone. When you want to call/text him, call another friend if you can, or come on here and post...find something else to do till the urge goes away...it will be hard at first but trust me, it will be the best thing for you to get rid of this guy.
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I am 48 years old and have been where you are now. Except his girlfriend was his wife (so there was marriage). He was full of excuses as to why he wanted to end the marriage but didn't. It lasted 10 YEARS! So he was telling the truth that he wanted to end it but he didn't have the guts or the courage or the motivation for an additional 10 years.
How long do you want to be in a relationship with him and her?
I appreciate wanting to be happy. You may be happy with him but you are not happy afterwards when you are postiing here.
And as long as he is there, you are not emotionally available for the 'same as him but single version.'
roses