Im really sorry you are going through a rough time! I hope you will be able to
forgive your self for the mistake.
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Originally Posted by erin654
This "friend" behaved inappropriately toward me and I kept allowing him to go farther and a couple weeks later he came over and had sex with me.
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Your wording above worries me a little. The actual event of sleeping with your husbands friend is obviously emotionally trying for you but, if you continue to view it as an
"assault" of sorts, you will likely further your own emotional damage. Even if he did take advantage of you, which is likely, you do not need to allow him to continue to do so in your memories.
Take charge of the situation and don't become a victim. Use this as a learning experience and move forward. Maybe see if you can talk to a therapist to discuss how to better protect your self and verbalize your emotions.
hugs and best wishes,
Blue