Hi, mind-body-soul, welcome to PsychCentral (PC).

I found it interesting you started with complaining that you don't "pick" the right kind of friends, you always pick people who feel they are better than you but then you ended with complaining about the people's behaviors; kind of like you set yourself up and then complain about the treatment? Pick people who you feel are on a par with you? Don't tolerate bad behavior from another for one second, especially their child beating up yours!