don't you know it splash! I went on for years blaming everything on my husband. Don't get me wrong there was some abuse on his part but if it wasn't for my damn illness I would have been able to make him knock it off or leave him. Knowing how much he loves me I know he would have towed the line in the end IF...and it is a big if...I had been able to make sense of what was going on. Yeah, there was nothing wrong with me...until I started thinking about suicide all the time then I kinda got the hint that I really needed to see someone about it.
Zen

<font color=green>Those who danced were thought to be quite insane by those who could not hear the music.--Angela Monet