I've always had trouble going to the dentist. I've been tossed between mean dentists, old ones, even creepy ones. they have all been so rough with me. in fourth grade, I went to these people, they pulled healthy teeth, held my head down, and screamed at me. it was horrible. and I have a very sensitive gag reflex and I was never handled gently. I have a new dentist, they are very nice and gentle but I'm still afraid. I take lorazopram (sp?) when I go, it helps me calm down, but I still worry very much. I only went for a cleaning so far, even that was difficult. im due for a filling soon and im extremely anxious. I don't know what to do to even get through the door at the dentist.the medicine helps a little but my legs still weaken at the thought of them being way back in my mouth with weird little tools. what if I panic and push them away and I get hurrt with something? i dont know what to do to relax..