Hi Judith

Some men are like that - all they talk about is your body or sex in general, or they want you to wear revealing or trashy clothes. Why can't they be serious about other things? It's so insulting, as if we're sex objects. This happens to me a lot even at my advanced age. I avoid this type of man if possible, once I realise the score. One or two dates and that's their lot! I move on. They're just dickheads, IMO.

So, you're not alone! There are (there must be) some nice men who like us for our personality, our intelligence?

I hope you had a good time at your group and met some decent people.

All good wishes, FG