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Originally Posted by rainbow8
In her email, she asked if I could change the time this Tuesday so I emailed back that I could. Then I wrote the rest. I was NOT manipulating her because I can write as much as I want, and I know I get only 1 back. That's our agreement. However, she emailed me again, thanking me for changing the time of my session, and added that we will talk next session about the part that panicked about her delay in writing. She said I shouldn't think about whether it's healthy or not, that it's just "where I'm at." She said it was "grist for the mill" in our work. She said she knows she's breaking her rule of writing back, too.
That makes me think that needing to hold her hand for almost the whole last session was "just where I'm at, too." I'm not supposed to judge myself.
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I am really glad that she replied to your emails and that you can now rest knowing she is ok! She sounds very understanding.
I know what you mean in your last post about how you can loose people you care about and in this case a professional. I have lost my "professional" person 3 times in the past 5 years and I am likely to loose my current one within the next year and that is devistating. My heart goes out to anyone who ever goes through that and I hope you never have to!
