It's got to be the hardest relationship problem I've ever had to deal with. We have a loving relationship, he wants marriage and kids with me. But all the lust and desire seems to have disappeared from his side.
I initiate everything and get rejected 90% of the time.
I've tried toys, lingerie, dirty texts to his phone, and everything just gets turned into a joke. (I am a slim and pretty women, my worst flaw would be that I've lost a little tone since we started dating)
I don't know what's wrong, I've asked him and he says that he's tired. That it isn't me. But this time around it's been 3 weeks and counting since we last had sex.
It's hard to explain, I don't really care about the sex, but the rejection and lack of intimacy is destroying my self-esteem and he knows this. I don't understand how over the course of a few months we go from every day to a few times a week, to maybe once to hardly ever.

Some male perspective may help?? Thanks all.