yep , I'm back again
thanks for all the patience and detailed explanations I have received so far

private chat:
1) if I go into the lobby, I can click on an icon at the top that gives me the list of rooms I want to go to.
2) at the bottom of this window there is a window that says create room

so if I want to talk with one other person, I can create a room and choose a password, pm her and then both go into chat

question: when we leave, is the room still there for us to access another day
question: how do you close a room permanently

OR IS IT POSSIBLE TO GO INTO A GROUP ROOM AND HAVE A PRIVATE CHAT(ASIDE) THAT IS COMPLETELY PRIVATE WITH NO POSSIBILITY OF A THIRD PERSON SEEING?

roses