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Hi

Why do we strive so hard to be liked, the ones among us who suffer in this way? Is it maybe a lack of confidence? Or could it be an overstuffed ego? Or a bit of both!

I can't decide, because sometimes I think it's one thing and then the other, according to how I'm feeling and who I'm with.

FG

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Hi Funnygirl,

You make a wise analysis of the problems some of us face. We seem to swing to the extremes, rather than taking the middle path, and I think that is a feature of the kind of illnesses we cope with.

One thing is clear; trying hard to be liked by everyone is not the best strategy for a happy life. It's an impossible goal!

My feeling is that it is mainly a confidence thing, and it goes deep - unfortunately.

Good thoughts, M