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Originally Posted by sidestepper
That's a really hard decision, I just want to give you a thumbs up for doing such a hard thing but one very good for yourself. I'm sorry it also means cutting off your brother too, but maybe time will help. I found for me distance helped. Living several states away and having an aunt(married into the family) close to my mom who kind of guided her to meeting for family members helped. I hope you and your brother may one day may be able to have that too. I have one sister I can talk to, and one who still thinks its some kind of attention seeking game. (yup- I loved moving away from averything I knew, having flashbacks and nightmares, and all the rest of it) You did what you needed to and I believe there can be hope for the future too.   |
Stepper : Ya think? (not sarcastic) I hope so! I need for these wounds to begin to heal!! And I need to stop chasing after something that's never gonna be there - the love (healthy love!) of a Father incapable of loving. It was easier with Mom after she died. She was gone so there was no more possibility of some day receiving love from her anymore. With dad being alive the little boy keeps looking for it. But all he gets in return is further damage. Enough.
How could they........?
