Suga, that wave is likely to come. It hits most of us hard when something traumatic like that happens. When we are already dealing with other issues, it can only compound it. Like Trippin says - book that leave, or at least get your T in on the picture with an arrangement that you can deal with the flood of emotions when they occur, and not have to wait for an appointment for when it is more convenient for everybody.
(((Suga)))