I so agree that we should shop for an obgyn
I found mine by accident... I was pregnant... had a miscarriage
this doctor is so cold and void of all emotion
he said, 'I am here first for the child. then for your physical health'
it worked for me
he was all business and nothing but business
I have so much anxiety
yet I have none when he gives me an exam
it is in the lab, out of the lab and into the office where I get facts

hope you find a good one for you soon

roses