Madisgram,
Ohhhh I dunno what's worse,or I mean harder.I feel for you.Either situation it would seem,is perfectly heart wrenching.I just wish our mental health laws,and care would/could be revised,to at least create a place where they can thrive,and feel cared for.As it stands,a huge number of people afflicted with this disease are tossed away,or left in horrific conditions,and w/o any legal rights or the ability to care for themselves.It is devastating.I am so sorry for the burden of your heart.
Hugggggs if o.k.....WO.olfie