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Originally Posted by treehouse
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We have been working on this for a long, long time. She talks about how I don't feel that I
deserve anything and I feel totally
unworthy of anything good happening in my life. She is not forcing forgiveness on me or expecting me to just do it over night. Like I said, we have been working on this a very long time.
We are currently working on my marriage, so of course, this is going to come up. She feels that I cannot heal my marriage unless I learn to forgive myself for mistakes I have made. She says that this keeps me
stuck and we need to get me
unstuck so that I can heal and move forward.
I told her that make take awhile. Her response was,
"No matter how long it takes, it is worth the time and effort you put into it. I am going to be here for you no matter how long it takes."
I know that I cannot heal my marriage all by myself. It takes the two of us (my spouse as well). But she tells me that I can be a much happier person if I learn to accept myself and the mistakes I have made and not keep myself in such bondage because I am not perfect.
I have asked if we can start meeting twice a week over the summer. Not sure that will help, but maybe it will kick start me to getting to the root of some of my issues?