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Originally Posted by littlebitlost
I know I need to look after my little girl (7yo) because otherwise my ex will get custody and I will never have her back. Im also worried if we do end up in court with my ex, that they will dig and try to show me as an unfit mother.
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Just a thought on this fear about getting help vs. psych help and custody...it is much, much better to show a track record of getting help for whatever issues then it is to have nothing and an ex-spouse show up with documentation about a,b,c.
Unless you are really creating an unsafe or neglectful place, I think it would be really hard to remove custody or visitation rights especially if you are addressing your issues. Thinking like a judge (which I'm not)...if I were to restore custody or visitation to someone, what would I like to see first before that happens...