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Originally Posted by Direction
Being intimate with someone when your not sure about what commitments have been made can certainly twist everything around.
Something to think about...what does healthy boundaries look like to you? Have you ever thought about boudaries before?
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I'm not sure what you mean. Do you mean about how often we see each other or whether or not we are exclusive? I think if I want to see him everyday that might be too much. Like I said I don't want to seem clingy. However, it is usually him inviting me over his house for dinner so I guess he doesn't mind seeing me too much. As for exclusivity I told him that there would be no intimate relationship if he was talking to other women or if I was talking to other guys.
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Originally Posted by whydoihatemyself
The best thing to do is ask him, what is deal with you two.
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Yeah, I know. My biggest problem is I ask too many people for advice. Some tell me that it is too early for that and I'm going to scare him away. Others say I waited too long and now I'm attached. I have a fear of him telling me we are just friends or something. I would feel like crap if he said that. I'm too chicken to ask, but I have to.