This is the one thing I've learned from my "mommie dearest", my entire life my mom has had different men, but was never able to spend more then a week by herself. I always knew, even as a young girl, that something was strange about that, because I always felt fine alone, still do.

I think the reason a lot of women have a hard time being alone is because they've kind of become emotionally dependant on their other. I'm not necessarily saying that's you.......but I know from my experiences with witnessing my mothers dependentsy.
I know there has to be some type of self diagnoses quizzes somewhere around here for dependentsy. I would check that out.
But if that's not it, and you just don't want to be alone, because it's lonely.......then that's normal. Nobody wants to be alone all the time. I think it would just take time and accepting of the fact that your alone. Then getting out into the community and making friends and doing things, to ensure you don't get to depressed.

I hope it all works out,
Desirae