When ones thinking and feelings do not line up with each other - the FEELINGS will always win out, and it does not matter if the feelings are right or wrong.... you must a line your mind and your heart, when they are in sink then you will be able to let go.

AND - only YOU can determine when that time will arrive.... at your own pace.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

Book worth reading: Feelings Buried Alive Never Die, by Karol Truman.