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May 24, 2011, 08:43 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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You're letting this guy CONTINUE to hurt you over and over again. He's living RENT FREE in your head !!!  By continuing to think about it, he has control over you. You have to take back that control, and not allow him to badger you anymore. Take your power back -- don't let him beat you up mentally anymore.
In a way, you're resenting him, but he doesn't even know it, so the only person you're hurting is YOU. Quit beating yourself up about this. That's all you're doing. Let him go -- he's gone, kaput, over & done with. You have to give yourself permission to let him go. Give yourself permission to stop thinking about him -- he's not worth it.
You deserve better, dearheart. And "better" WILL come along - just wait and see. It might take a little while, but you'll be pleasantly surprised. God bless & take care of YOU. Hugs, Lee
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