I will try to be as laconic as possible: I am 27 years old always abide to my parents rules until recently that I realised I have learned 3 languages cause they told me so and I have gratuated from a univercity they told me so, moreover my faculty is a disaster here and I cannot find a job for years... My mother is very opinonated and sneaky and she always managed to get her own way with me, that ruined my relationships and my friendships at times. Now I don't allow this anymore but I've come to realise that as much as it was my fault accepting her to guide me on what I was supposed to choose on my own, it was her fault too if not more. Over the last years I developed a great love for pastry and been cooking like crazy, makes me feel great and all so I decided to ask them to give me a second chance that I deserve and help me study this in a neighbouring country in europe that is very well known for its gastronomic specialists. And what she said was, 'I will help you IF you go 3-4 months to a psychiatrist cause they have to assure me this is what you really want to do with your life'. And I am like... I want to plant a bomb into the house. Seriously as much as I respect every profession does it even make sense to you that she wants me to go to a specialist of any kind and he/she are to define if I really want to be a pastry chef? What should I do? I am so frustrated now she always find a way to ruin everything for me. She admitted she has the money to help, this one time that I need help from my own mother that I helped and served all my life she denies. And she insults me with the worst way possible. What should I do? Please help?