I feel the need--almost a compulssion--to tell this guy about me. I feel like I need to explain why I am the way I am. It's like with the PTSD, what if he misunderstands something? He asked recently about sexy clothes, but I got rid of all that stuff when I divorced. Not only did I not need it or find it comfortable to wear, but I also remembered things my X would do---he caused my PTSD. I'm considering writing this guy a letter. It will be hard to write because I have an idea of what I would like him to know, but I just haven't figured out the right way to say it--if there is a right way. Has anyone else PTSD related problems had the urge to let the other person in a relationship know about you? What did you do or what happened?