Hi

I have a friend who might be coming to travel in a country where I'm living. She gave me the dates that she'll be here, and I am leaving town on day 2 of her 3 days here-- like moving out of the country. In other words she can't stay here with me.

Then she wrote me back saying she's not sure she can hang out because she's going to be so busy with meetings.

That kind of hurt my feelings because I'm not sure who she even knows here, but it feels like a brush off.

Should I ask her to clarify? Should I just bite my tongue? The main thing is I want to know whether or not I am like the 5th or 6th person my friend called to hang out with, and has no time for me.

I KNOW it doesn't matter. I just want to know.