Things have been going better between me and my husband. My ten month old son on the other hand is having a really rough time. He has numerous seizures even on the preventative medication. This is very stressful for not only him but also me and my husband. Plus, I recently found out that I am four months pregnant and that most likely this baby will also have seizures. My husband and I still have a slightly more tense relationship when the other two kids come to visit. Not that I don't love them like I do our son, I do the problem is that no matter what we do the mother try's to cause problems and I see this as a personal attack on me. The reason I take it that way is because she didn't have a problem with me being around them until after I got pregnant with out son and he was born. Then all the sudden her attitude changed and now that I'm pregnant again her reasons for causing problems have went to the extent that she even finds fault with my husband when he plays with the kids or when he stands them in a corner. "If we make them eat the food we made that they decided they didn't want for dinner were wrong." "If we tell them that if they don't want it then they don't have to eat it then were supposedly starving them." No matter what we do it's wrong. My husband says its in my head and it's not a personal attack but that's how I see it and that's the way she acts when she's around or talks to me. I don't have much experience in communicating with people because I have always stuck to myself. Everything just has me so stressed out and my emotions are going crazy.