People don't come with an "owner's manual" with a section on illnesses in the back. It's not your fault your son has seisures. My sister has a seisure disorder and so I can relate a bit the situation. You see, my sister is stubborn and drives herself when she shouldn't. We get after her though because we care about her.

Now that son of yours, if you didn't disapline him just like any other child, you would have a spoiled child who has seisures which would make the sitaution worse for everyone. I say, disregard anyone who finds fault with your parenting skills.

No one but you can know what it's like to raise a child with a seisure disorder.