Wow ~ Well, I can't say I blame you for not wanting to undergo any more surgery. I don't think I'd want to either in the same situation. ( although I'm female )

You know, believe it or not there ARE women who just aren't that interested in sex for one reason or another. For instance, I'm a widow and I don't care if I EVER have sex again - I prefer not to. Call me sick, or whatever but it never interested me that much and I've been thru therapy so I hope no one suggests that. LOL

So there ARE women out there (and I've talked to many) who just don't care about it!! Don't worry -- you'll find your companion one day soon. God bless, Whitneyman. Take care. Hugs, Lee