thank you so much everyone.
actually, t gave me information and i think he played me a bit.

he gave me enough information for me to know what needed to be done, but suggested nothing...so it could be like it was my idea....lol. otherwise, i'm sure i wouldn't have felt it safe.
we go for round two next week. i think we're going to be doing this from here on out, until it comes full circle.
actually, there's nothing really for me to say there anymore...it's down to this and that's all.
thank you again for the PM's, support and love.
you're all so appreciated. what in the world would i do without you?
kd