This is my first attempt in a long, long time at discussing a problem I've had my whole life, but I have to try. I'm in my mid-30s and have never had a romantic-sexual relationship of any sort with a woman. In looking at my relationships with people in general, I would say that I've never fully trusted anybody before, certainly not in the last 20 years. I've always been very shy and withdrawn which hasn't helped matters any, and the idea of physical intimacy has always terrified me a little. I know I'm afraid of failing in this area and consequently have avoided any situation where the possibility might arise. However, I've finally admitted to myself that it's not going to go away on its own and have started the process of finding a therapist. My question though is this...do women find it appealing being with a completely inexperienced guy, and one as old as myself? I find my current state humiliating and embarassing and am under the impression that a woman would feel the same way. Any thoughts are appreciated...thanks.