((Josh))

Romantic relationships can be real stressful sometimes, especially if we are low in self-esteem. You are just beginning the romance roundabout. It is very common for us to questions ourselves and our likeability at your age. With time, comes experience. Some good and some bad experiences ~ it's what we learn from.

I would advise you not to stress and put off calling her back next time. I can understand taking a little time, to gather your thoughts. That is a good thing to do. But, when you find yourself anxiously avoiding a situation, the best thing that you can do it turn around and face it. Don't let the anxiety consume you and prevent you from picking up the phone or going out with your girl.

If you feel weak, work out 4-5 times per week. If you feel sloppy, put a little more attention to detail. My point is that you do have some control over what you perceive your weaknesses to be. Don't do ___ to keep your gf though. Do it for yourself. Do it to make youself feel better about who you are & gain some self-confidence.

Very best wishes to you Josh. Try to be gentle on yourself ~ you do deserve love. You just need to believe that.