Caroline, the same thing happens to me. When I'm doing well, I miss the others when they're quiet and then when stress is high or triggers abundant and the others are active, it's confusing and overwhelming. I'm new to the diagnosis and am still trying to figure this all out. I have found this forum to be extremely helpful and friendly. The others also want to post and have done so at time - I think. Hang in there and know that you're not alone. Hope you feel better soon.