Love changes thinks I think. Had this not been my father's beloved grandson he would not have changed his attitude. (And he did change his attitude). I have an Uncle and an Aunt that are homosexual. While he loved them, he never "approved" of their lifestyle.

NOT that the color a child prefers is an indication of sexual orientation, but that is the assumption. Your bf may very well change his attitude if it is his own child.

I don't know how I feel about refusing to call a child boy or girl. I can see both sides. All I know is LONG before my son even knew there was a difference between boys and girls he said he was a girl. When a potty training accident with my niece (about 10 months younger than the twins) made him realize that girls and boys were phyically different he changed his statement to I am a girl in my head. He was 3!

So anyone out there that tries to tell me that he was not born this way can get stuffed! He is they way he was meant to be and God does not make mistakes.