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Old May 26, 2011, 06:18 PM
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You're welcome! I'm glad I was able to help someone!

I agree about letters. I actually used to write my fiance a lot of letters when I was in college and upset about something. I never sent 99.9% of them. For me, though, it was a way of seeing that what i was upset about was silly, or was a way for me to fully vent my feelings to him without actually doing it and causing a further mess and dragging it all out (my fiance basically feels like if I'm not going to be upset in the morning, then it wasn't really an issue and just one of my moods; I tend to agree. If I was still upset the next day, I'd reread it and possibly send it to him or talk to him about the issue again). But then, remember, I'm the one in your boyfriend's position, though struggling with other issues and several years of therapy and various medications under my belt!

Please let us know how things go. I will be sending positive thoughts your way. We'll be here for you no matter how it all turns out!