Sanada, pepole have told you their feelings about whispering and private chatting. It's there for good reason and should be used judiciously.

There's something else to keep in mind. As (JD) indicated, folks may be multi-tasking, or distracted while in chat. Having said that, there are also folks who come to a room just to sit and not talk. They want to be near people they're familiar with, but don't wish to participate in the conversation. I know a few folks here like that, all they want is to be around people, feel safe and not feel the burden of having to say anything, if they so choose.

The longer you are here at PC, the more familiar you will become with the members. You'll find (and you know what I'm talking about) that there's a place and time for whispering and private chats.