Hi Carol and welcome.

I am so very sorry for what you and your family are going through right now. I just wanted to add that I beleive that they can not make a spouse testify against eachother. So if you are called as a witness, you can refuse without punishment. I beleive that is the case. Someone please correct me if I am wrong.

Carol,

I would suggest some couselling for you and your daughter as you guys are really dealing with some heavy things right now. You need some sort of support to help you through this. We are also here for you.