the thing with relationship's is that it takes time to get to know each other not day's but month's. I think you are trying to take thing's to fast. If a Guy Likes you and not for sex he will take that time to get to know you for who you are. Me personally will at least take 6 month's to get to know you as a person before I would think of a relationship. when you first meet some one they will show you what they want you to see. But it takes about 6-7 month's to see the real person because by then thay are comfortable around you.