Hi Joann

It seems to me that, if he doesn't mind you staying at his house all night, there's something about your home that he doesn't like. Some people prefer their own bed - and I am one of them. I never sleep as well in a different bed. Is it noisier at your place? Are there animals?

I don't know why you continue to invite him back if you know this is going to happen and will upset you.

Can't you simply accept he has a reason for wanting to get home, and look forward to staying at his? I can see that it's definitely not you yourself he is avoiding, but he is maybe too polite to tell the real reason.

FG