please re-read your last post. you know the answer. it's there in black and white. i'm afraid that you would never be able to break the apron strings on him. sounds as if mom calls all his shots, so to speak.

you left your children to be with him? i question him going along with that. if it were my man and he didn't want me and my children..first thing...i'd be very hurt and cautious about having anything else to do with him.

the perfume thing? does his mom and sister wear perfume so strong that it would just jump over to him? i'm sorry that i'm sounding so harsh, but it's you i'm concerned about. i could give a flying flip about him and his mom.

there is are two old sayings that i subscribe to, "cook or get out of the kitchen" or "%#@&#! or get off the pot"......7 nights in four years is silly. someone here is not telling the truth about something.

good luck...keep posting here. we care about you and how you're doing. and i'm so sorry that he has put you through the wringer so many times. love, pat