Hi, Rapunzel--

The behavior your husband displayed is simply not acceptable--I know, I used to act that way from time to time. I did the mature thing (for once) and took an anger management class, (No, Jack Nicholson DID NOT move in!!!!) which helped immensely. You simply can't allow this to go on, if only for your daughter--she has to learn that women don't have to tolerate that (or any) kind of abuse.

Guys who pull this kind of stuff really make me mad...that's not how real men act. I do know that the right kind of therapy can help, because it did for me.

Be safe, and see if you can talk to DH about changing his ways.

DJ