So my wife and I have discussed the need of Theripists.... I don't know why but it makes me feel like I'm not good enough knowing she feels she needs a T too... I have acted as her T since we were in high school and that used to be good enough to make her happy she had a T once before and she told me that I was better than that because she could talk to me easier. Why does it hurt me so bad now that she wants to go back??? I want to know why. she says it's not me but I feel it is... I feel like she's always looking for someone else to talk to even though she says she's not. I makes me feel like I'm not good enough to solve the same problems I used to be able to solve.... It makes me wonder what did I do then that I'm not doing now. All she keeps saying is that it's not me.... But that's EXACTLY what I feel it is. I can't get her to understand how I feel about it and it makes me feel even worse when I try to talk to her about it because she doesn't see how she's been shutting me out.... I feel she talks to her friends on here more than she talks to me most of the time. I just don't know what to do. I can't sort threw my own feelings. I've always been better at sorting threw other ppls lives than sorting threw my own. Help me... someone tell me what to do. I just don't understand. Something always seems to come up to make me feel NOT GOOD ENOUGH.... in everything.... WHY??? why does it hurt me to know she wants to go to the T??? Why does it make me feel like she doesn't need me like she used to????