I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and it really hasn't been easy but its getting worse and worse...........

my boyfriend is agoraphobic and has been throughout our entire relationship also still living at home with his parents and brother. i have moved in their family home several times but get kicked out when the anger takes no matter what time throughout the night. i have tried soo hard to stand by him with his mental health issues also i have my own mental health problems and problems in my family life, he started getting violent a few years sgo not much but over the last year it has been really bad, i don't have to say anything its just if he assumes something. i understand a mother protecting her son but whens he being violent she says is she throwing herself around again, i have tryed sitting him down to talk but anything i have to say hes not interested and cuts me of, tells me to shut up or my Favorite line 'its not ALL about me'........the thing is it never is when i was going through cervical cancer he really was not bothered 'its not all about me you know, i really have tried from every angle i possibly can........any advice i am thankful.

takecare xxxflossyxxx