{{{{{{{{{LEXI}}}}}}}}} WOW I am soooo proud of you for this ! Even though I've disliked your bf for the things he's done to you.. I am glad that you are trying to work things out first before you give up.That shows alot of maturity on both your parts. I know how hard it is to do this. I've been married for 16yrs now and we are in marraige therapy. Its very hard work. I commend you for wanting to do this for yourself and for the both of you! GOOD GOING!!!!!!! And keep up the good work! Keep us posted!

Hugz~
Bethy
ps.. may I tell you this also that over the past few months I have really seen you grow as a person. Its been so neat! Good going on that too!