This is hard to explain.

I know someone. I will call this person X. But I met another person, a person that i didnt know and had never met before and knew nothing off , I will call this person Y. So i get chatting to Y and it turns out we both know X. Inadvertantly Y tells me " oh did you know that X ........................."

Well I didnt know about this thing, cos X never told me and Ive waited for X to tell me but not a word.

X just never told me and Ive sorta given chances to say and I even asked a direct question about one of the things and I got a lie back.

Its just that X is always telling me about trust and so on. And i feel defeated and a bit ridiculed. Like everyone else knows this thing but noone told me.